MIDDLE ADOLESCENCE | 15 TO 17 YEAR VISITS
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• Get accurate information about sexuality, physical
development, sexual feelings; talk to parents/trusted
adult/me.
For females: Tell me about your periods (how often, how heavy,
painful, most recent). For females and males: Have you talked with
your parents about crushes you’ve had, about dating and relation-
ships, and about sex? Do you have any questions related to physi-
cal development, sexuality, gender identity (your identity as a male
or female), or sexual orientation? Have you had sex?
• Communicate frequently and share expectations clearly.
RISK REDUCTION
Tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs; pregnancy; STIs
• Don’t smoke, drink, use drugs; avoid situations with
drugs/alcohol; support friends who don’t use; talk with
me if you’re concerned about family member’s use.
Have you ever experimented with smoking/tobacco/alcohol/
drugs/steroids? Do you ever sniff, “huff,” or breathe anything to
get high?
• Talk with youth about tobacco/alcohol/drugs; know
youth’s friends and activities; clearly discuss rules/
expectations; praise him for not using; be a role model;
consider locking liquor cabinet, putting prescription
medicines in a place where youth can’t find them.
Do you regularly supervise your youth’s social and recreational
activities? What have you and your youth discussed about the risk
of using alcohol/tobacco/drugs?
• Abstaining from sexual intercourse, including oral sex, is
the safest way to prevent pregnancy and STIs; plan
how to avoid sex, risky situations.
• If sexually active, protect against STIs/pregnancy.
Have you had sex? Was it wanted or unwanted? Have you ever felt
pressured or forced to do something sexual that you didn’t want
to do? How many partners have you had in the past year? Were
your partners male or female or have you had both male and
female partners? Did you use a condom or other contraceptive?
• Encourage sexual abstinence; help youth make a plan
for resisting pressure; support safe activities at school;
talk about your values; have discussions with youth
as she accepts responsibility for her decisions and
relationships.
Have you shared with your youth your hopes, expectations, and
values about relationships and sex ?
VIOLENCE AND INJURY PREVENTION
Safety belt and helmet use, driving (graduated license) and
substance abuse, guns, interpersonal violence (dating
violence), bullying
• Wear safety belt, helmet, protective gear, life jacket.
• Limit night driving, driving with teen passengers.
• Wear safety belt; be involved in youth’s driving, set
limits/expectations about number of passengers, night
driving, distracted driving, high-risk situations.
Key= Guidance for youth, questions; Guidance for parent, questions